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Don't underestimate actions, because actions can form habits; don't underestimate habits, because habits can shape character; don't underestimate character, because character can determine destiny.
Whether you win money or not is actually controlled by your own gambling habits, good or bad. Many gamblers spend their whole lives in the ups and downs of gambling, without achieving anything substantial. The primary reason for this is that they might win small amounts, but often lose all their profits in one big ""loss,"" and even end up owing money. Of course, some gamblers often make solemn promises to themselves, vowing to strictly enforce loss limits next time. However, after a few attempts, their old habits tend to resurface, again and again. In the end, they lose most of their funds and leave quietly. To quote Florence Nightingale, this psychological state can be aptly described as: ""Successful people often have habits that losers don't like, because they are willing to do things they don't particularly enjoy to achieve success. However, losers only want to do things they enjoy, and in the end, they can only accept unsatisfactory results.""
Many gamblers, when making betting decisions, only consider whether they feel ""good"" emotionally, stubbornly rejecting all advice and guidance from others. They persist in their bad habits unconsciously. Psychologists have studied that it takes at least 21 repetitions to form a habit in humans. Gamblers, ask yourselves, has the bad habit that causes you to lose money repeatedly been repeated at least 21 times? To create a new ""good"" habit to replace the old one, you must have a strong sense of ""awareness"" and ""perseverance."" Giving up bad habits on the casino floor is as difficult as quitting smoking. However, as long as you make an effort to try, after once, twice, or ten times, you will begin to enjoy and affirm a new self. This is not an easy task, but it's not that difficult either. Give yourself confidence, try again, do it several times, introspect humbly, and adjust yourself. You will find room for growth. Endure temporary discomfort, and once you develop good habits, success will be within reach. |
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