In life, ideals are often rare, but stability is also a good way of living.

Yamini003

I'm actually more of a rational person now, and I tend to handle things in a rational manner in real life. I always remind myself not to let emotions control my decisions. However, my personality wasn't always like this. I remember my younger self as someone who leaned towards idealism. I was influenced by some animated shows and movies during my youth, so my thinking back then was more idealistic. When faced with problems, I always wanted to find a win-win solution and believed that there was nothing that couldn't be solved with hard work and teamwork.

But this idealism gradually faded as I entered the workforce. In my job, I often encountered situations where it was impossible to achieve a perfect solution. In interpersonal relationships, there were inevitably people whose personalities clashed with mine. While I used to try to pursue my ideals, I found that it became more challenging over time, and my youthful idealism slowly diminished.

Of course, I don't deny my younger self. I believe that idealism is a wonderful thing, but I'm just not the fortunate one who can fully embrace it. I also wouldn't advocate for young people to act too mature prematurely, as embracing idealism is a natural trait of youth. What one becomes later in life depends on their individual circumstances, and words alone won't change that.

Fortunately, I quite enjoy my current life. While it may lack miracles, stability is now my greatest treasure.

Kapil334

I increasingly feel that the sense of stability brings a more grounded feeling.

Indra55

Ideals, in themselves, exist beyond life. Stability is the best way of life.

Rupa7997

In fact, simplicity is true. Life doesn't need to be overly exciting; as long as you feel happy every day, that's enough.

Reman777

I really feel that slowly, it's okay to just have a stable life. Big dreams aren't that easy to achieve, but having a little one is fine. If you can't, just live a stable life.

Samiksha

What ideals are there at this age? The ideal of life is simply an ideal life.