We can never satisfy everyone's grievances.

Ritu77

Sometimes you carefully handle others, but they say you're too cautious; then, when you boldly deal with things, they complain that you're too rough. It feels like you're always trying to strike a balance, but it seems you can never please everyone.

First, let's talk about the annoyance of being criticized for being too cautious. You know, some people just feel like everything has to go their way, and if there's even a slight deviation, they start nitpicking. You strive to do things thoroughly, but they think you're being overly cautious. You can't help but wonder, "Come on, what did I do wrong?" It's like they get scared by the slightest mistake. At times like this, you really want to tell them, "This is just my style, whether you can accept it is up to you!"

Then, let's look at the feeling of being criticized for being too rough. You feel like you're challenging your comfort zone, bravely facing challenges, but others think you're being too rude. You feel like saying, "Goodness, isn't this being brave?" Sometimes, you want to express your opinion, but others think you're too direct and don't know how to be diplomatic. At these times, you really want to tell them, "I don't have time to beat around the bush, this is just who I am, take it or leave it."

People, as you can see, are really hard to figure out. You try to be thorough, they say you're cautious; you boldly express yourself, they say you're rude. It's frustrating! But don't worry too much, because you can never please everyone. Some people just like to find fault, no matter how hard you try, you can't make them happy.

So, what I want to say is, just be yourself. Don't worry too much about what others think because their opinions are always subjective. The way you do things is your style, your characteristic. Of course, if there are areas that need improvement, you can make adjustments as needed, but don't give up your principles and bottom line just to please others.

Lastly, as the old saying goes, "Living is about making yourself happy, let others think whatever they want!" It's that simple, so why care about what they say? Just focus on being comfortable with yourself.

Indra55

You should let others satisfy you, not you satisfy others.

Jafar224

The troubles are indeed numerous for everyone.